LGBTQ+ Friendly Senior Photography
If you identify with the LGBTQ+ community, you may want to do a bit of research before hiring your next photographer. Why does hiring an inclusive and LGBTQ+ friendly senior photographer matter? Because, as a client, you will know that you’ll be accepted and celebrated before ever stepping foot into their studio. And when it’s time for your session, you’ll rest assured knowing that you will be greeted with your preferred pronouns and with an open heart.
We’ve all heard of the “exclusive” senior sessions. But photographers who make “inclusive” senior sessions part of their business model and marketing aren’t as widely seen. I’d like to change that, starting with my business.
Celebration In Senior Photos
Senior portraits are a milestone for everyone. For some, having senior portraits taken might be the first time they’ve ever been in front of a professional camera. For others, it might be their opportunity to show the world who they are as a young adult. Specifically for the senior who sees gender as fluid or maybe hasn't seen someone like them in typical Senior Sunday scrolling, these portraits will become milestone portraits celebrating who they are now and have always been whether the world was ready or not.
Finding a photographer with a portfolio that shows inclusion and diversity will help you choose the right one to work with. If you’re in the Columbus, Ohio, area, then I hope it’ll be me.
Pronouns and Portfolio Matter
Another way to know if the photographer you’re interested in working with is LBGTQ+ friendly is to read through the wording they use on their website. Do they have inclusive language and openly discuss pronouns? If they do, that’s a good indication that they genuinely care how you identify.
Another place to look is at the photographer’s work itself. Does the photographer have a diverse portfolio? Does the photographer care about things like gender, stereotypes, and inclusion? In the last two years, in addition to my typical client work, I have worked on two personal projects, one focusing on race and one focusing on gender. (One of my favorite sessions for this past summer was this one about gender expectations for women.) I take pride in welcoming everyone to my studio and championing the many ways they represent a modern, progressive world.
Now that we’ve discussed a few things to look for if you want to work with an LGBTQ+ friendly photographer, let’s look at some things I do with each of my seniors (including Ali here!) to help them have a great session.
Fashion and Wardrobe
We all have one or two pieces in our wardrobe that we gravitate to over and over. I encourage my clients to bring wardrobe pieces that match their personalities and allow them to be comfortable. It helps elevate the client experience and helps the client feel more relaxed.
For Ali’s session, she brought an outfit that she thought was “appropriate” for senior photos: a tan sweater and black pants. I could tell that she didn’t have her whole heart in that outfit. She looked nice, of course, but her body language and expression suggested that her next outfit--the one she told me she really liked--would be more fun, more her style. From a photographer’s point of view, I could see a visceral change in the way her expressions and movements changed when she wore clothes she loved.
Ali’s favorite wardrobe pieces were her black sweater with a white collared shirt and a comfy flannel shirt. Her comfort in these outfits is undeniable--just take a look!
Diversity in Location
When we planned Ali’s senior session, she voiced her desire to shoot both indoor and outdoor photos, so we did just that! We traveled around Columbus to find specific spots that spoke to her aesthetic and personality.
We are so fortunate to have amazing Metro Parks in Columbus, Ohio. But they don’t provide much diversity or *spice* to the shots.
In Worthington, we found a rainbow-painted bench, and Ali LIT UP with excitement! There wasn’t a forced smile on this bench, only excitement and joy. I also noticed that Ali changed her social media profile picture to one of these images. If that’s not a sign that we got the photo, then I don’t know what is.
Small things like this mean so much to clients, especially those in the LGBTQ+ community. Helping Ali find something as simple as a colorful bench assured her that I cared and wanted her senior portraits to represent who she is.
Pre-Shoot Jitters and Posing
I’ve known Ali for years. But despite knowing each other, she was still a bit nervous before her session. Here’s what I’ll say about the pre-shoot jitters: they are normal, and nearly every client feels this way.
Ali didn’t think she was photogenic (her family always disagrees!), and said she didn’t like having her photos taken because of it. She also worried that she wouldn’t know how to pose herself. I can’t tell you how often I hear clients tell me they don’t know how to pose themselves.
Unless you’re a full-time model, you’re never going to know how to pose yourself in the most flattering positions from each camera angle. That’s my job! I pose each client to make them feel comfortable and look their best.
Ali and I worked together to create her senior portraits for two hours. At the end of her session, she said that she had so much fun that she wouldn’t mind staying for another hour! She also told me that she appreciated all of the posing tips I gave her.
Her thoughts on having senior pictures taken went from feeling nervous and uncomfortable to enjoying a two-hour session! One reason for this is that I invite my clients to be themselves. I encourage them to show their unique personality through wardrobe, props, sports, and even location.
Final Thoughts
Ali is an amazing person. She’s kind, funny, thoughtful, and wise beyond her years. She’s an old soul who cares so much about justice and equality.
I’m thankful she trusted me to capture a pivotal time in her young adult life.
Where to next?
I photographed Ali’s brother for a project I worked on called “Be A Man.”
I focused on that project to talk about gender norms in our society today.
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